Lately there have been a lot of discussions about looking after yourself as a writer. From Kate Mallinder's SCBWI-BI’s Words and Pictures series on resilience, to The Golden Egg Academy’s Mental Health Month, (accessible to non-egg’s via twitter) it seems like everyone is talking about how keep yourself well… sane.
I like most writers find aspects of the process difficult. The bundles of ‘No’s’ when on submission is hard. But the thing that really knocks me is the nagging notion that I’m not progressing. I am hard on myself and looking at it objectively I know I’m getting ‘progress’ confused with ‘published.’
|With the rest of the Short Pitchers at the Golden Egg Big Honk|
Progress can be small and therefore can go easily unnoticed.
In my last crit group meeting, one of my writer friends showed me a scrapbook she is compiling, where she prints off all the feedback she gets, sticks it in and highlights all the positive remarks so she can read it when she need a boost. This got me thinking. I have every submission I’ve ever made logged in a spreadsheet, (I can produce statistics or graphs if I desired) and I have virtual copies of feedback, BUT nothing in hard copy. Nothing easy to access. Nothing that is a log of achievements, successes and progress.
|Finishing a new WIP in the first time ins forever!|
|My Treasured prize for winning the SCBWI Conference 10 Word Pitch!|
Maybe I was embarrassed that after almost a decade I’m still not in print. Maybe it was because I was paranoid I’d be perceived as being a bit boasty. But mostly it was because I’d forgotten the importance of accepting the small achievements as progress and cause for celebration
|Special Mention in the Slushpile Challenge - Thanks to Rachel Mann for liking Snowballs!|
So here are a few little things I have to celebrate for this year… so far…
- I won the 10 word pitch at the SCBWI conference in November.
- I was one of the runner-up'ers in the Golden Egg Academy Big Honk Sentence Pitch competition in January.
- I completed my first new manuscript (in a very long time) this year.
- I started writing out of my comfort zone, breaking out into Middle Grade.
- I was one of the twenty short listed authors for the David Higham Open Day.
- I’m on active submission for the first time in a long long time.
- I got a special mention for my new book, ‘Snowballs from Hell’ in the SCBWI Words and Pictures April Slushpile Challenge judged my Rachel Mann, Agent at Jo Unwin Literary Agency
- I’ve entered eight writing competitions already this year
- I’m writing a new Middle Grade novel.
All little things, but put together it instantly makes me feel more confident about my writing.
So please remember. As a writer don’t forget to accept small achievements as progress and don’t be embarrassed to celebrate the small things, because without the small successes they’ll never be big successes.
|Starting a new WIP|
Love this. Well done! We all need to remind ourselves that success is a subjective thing which we tend to define as whatever it is that is just beyond our reach. You are definitely on a roll!ReplyDelete
Thank Nicky, for stopping by and for your wise words. Much appreciated.ReplyDelete
You have so much energy this year Sally. It's brilliant - do keep going! XReplyDelete
Thanks Paula, you are always such a great support!Delete